This morning in my car while driving on I77 South, the Holy Spirit put this in my mind, "Nothing to lose; nothing to prove." What a liberating concept. Unfortunately, we live as though we do have something to lose and something to prove. And the longer we go on this way the weaker we become, spiritually speaking. Talk about missing the abundant life!
It's even true in the secular world for secular people. Having something to prove is too much pressure for anyone. Fearing losing a job or a raise or our reputations or friends or the approval of our significant others is too much for anyone to bear up under for very long. I've been there and done that. And in the work-a-day world or in school this fear is the stuff of nightmares. I know, I have been there and lived that way.
My last supervisor in a job that should have been rewarding in so many ways was an overbearing tyrant at times. He so intimidated me that often when around him I couldn't think straight. He reminded me of my late father whose approval I was constantly trying to win up until the day he died. Life at work was like that until one day when I had to meet with a salesman with whom my department regularly did business.
We met for the first time that day in the lobby of our office building, my supervisor was present in order to introduce me to this very cordial gentleman. They had been talking about a job that the salesman would be involved in before I came into the lobby and I left our building with the salesman soon after our introduction. As we were walking up the sidewalk to our parking lot, this stranger, this salesman, asked me very bluntly and straightforwardly, "Why is (his name) threatened by you?"
That came out of nowhere. I was blown away, stunned, amazed. And I knew that this man whom I had never met had put his finger on the problem, my boss was threatened by little ol' me. It just made so much sense. I had been getting so much positive attention from our departments top brass for some time and had become friends with our department supervisor til my boss felt himself losing something. What, I don't know. I had no aspirations of taking his job. But once it sunk in that my boss was actually intimidated by yours truly and after discussing this with my wife, life on the job changed.
NOTHING TO LOSE; NOTHING TO PROVE
God is not like my former boss; my former boss was most definitely not like my heavenly Father. But following some great words of wisdom from my godly wife, I turned the tables on my boss's fears. I began to do everything I could, freely and by deliberate choice, to make him look good to his superiors. It changed him. Now neither of us had anything to fear from the other and nothing to lose by just being our bright and creative selves. I was free to think and free to be creative. When he asked me one day what had changed about our relationship, I told him honestly, "_______, I'm here to do my job and part of that is to make you look good." The deal was sealed.
For those who are now "in Christ," for us there is nothing to lose and nothing to prove; the deal is sealed.
I'll continue this in my conclusion to this series.
It's even true in the secular world for secular people. Having something to prove is too much pressure for anyone. Fearing losing a job or a raise or our reputations or friends or the approval of our significant others is too much for anyone to bear up under for very long. I've been there and done that. And in the work-a-day world or in school this fear is the stuff of nightmares. I know, I have been there and lived that way.
My last supervisor in a job that should have been rewarding in so many ways was an overbearing tyrant at times. He so intimidated me that often when around him I couldn't think straight. He reminded me of my late father whose approval I was constantly trying to win up until the day he died. Life at work was like that until one day when I had to meet with a salesman with whom my department regularly did business.
We met for the first time that day in the lobby of our office building, my supervisor was present in order to introduce me to this very cordial gentleman. They had been talking about a job that the salesman would be involved in before I came into the lobby and I left our building with the salesman soon after our introduction. As we were walking up the sidewalk to our parking lot, this stranger, this salesman, asked me very bluntly and straightforwardly, "Why is (his name) threatened by you?"
That came out of nowhere. I was blown away, stunned, amazed. And I knew that this man whom I had never met had put his finger on the problem, my boss was threatened by little ol' me. It just made so much sense. I had been getting so much positive attention from our departments top brass for some time and had become friends with our department supervisor til my boss felt himself losing something. What, I don't know. I had no aspirations of taking his job. But once it sunk in that my boss was actually intimidated by yours truly and after discussing this with my wife, life on the job changed.
NOTHING TO LOSE; NOTHING TO PROVE
God is not like my former boss; my former boss was most definitely not like my heavenly Father. But following some great words of wisdom from my godly wife, I turned the tables on my boss's fears. I began to do everything I could, freely and by deliberate choice, to make him look good to his superiors. It changed him. Now neither of us had anything to fear from the other and nothing to lose by just being our bright and creative selves. I was free to think and free to be creative. When he asked me one day what had changed about our relationship, I told him honestly, "_______, I'm here to do my job and part of that is to make you look good." The deal was sealed.
For those who are now "in Christ," for us there is nothing to lose and nothing to prove; the deal is sealed.
I'll continue this in my conclusion to this series.